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A calm and supportive space where you can be heard, understood, and accepted without judgment.Taking the first step can feel difficult. Take your time to read on and get in touch whenever you feel ready.
about me
kelly chater
Experienced. Certified. Supportive.
I became a counsellor because I know how important it is to feel safe, heard and supported, especially during painful or difficult times.This belief sits at the heart of TogetherWe Counselling. I offer a calm, compassionate space where you can talk openly, feel understood and begin to make sense of what you are experiencing.I am a BACP-registered counsellor working with adults from all backgrounds and identities. I support people through a wide range of challenges, always at a pace that feels right for them.
frequently asked questions
If you’re thinking about counselling, you may have some questions.
Here are some of the things people often wonder before getting started.
What if I don’t know what to talk about?
That’s okay. You don’t need to prepare anything or have the right words. We can begin wherever you are and explore what feels important to you.Will I have to talk about my childhood?
Not unless you feel it is helpful. Counselling is guided by you, and we will explore whatever feels relevant and comfortable for you.How many sessions will I need?
Everyone’s journey is different. Some people find a shorter period of counselling helpful, while others choose longer-term support. We can regularly review what feels right for you.Is counselling confidential?
Yes. Confidentiality is an important part of creating a safe space. I will explain the limits of confidentiality when we begin working together.Can counselling help if I don’t have a diagnosis?
Absolutely. You do not need a diagnosis to seek counselling. Many people come because they are struggling, feeling stuck, going through changes, or wanting to understand themselves better.What happens in the first session?
The first session is a chance for us to meet, talk about what has brought you to counselling, and see how it feels to work together. There is no pressure to share anything you are not ready to discuss.
why togetherwe?
I chose the name "TogetherWe" because I believe counselling is a shared journey. You bring your experiences, thoughts, feelings, and hopes, and I bring a safe space, compassion, and the opportunity to explore things together. You do not have to navigate alone.
my professional commitment
Choosing a counsellor is a personal decision, and I know how important it is to find someone you feel comfortable opening up to. I am committed to creating a safe, confidential, and welcoming space where you can feel heard, respected, and supported. I believe that trust is at the heart of the counselling relationship, and I take the responsibility of being alongside you with care and professionalism. My aim is to provide a space where you can explore your thoughts and feelings openly, knowing that you will be met with compassion, understanding, and respect.I am a registered member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and work in accordance with their ethical framework. I hold appropriate professional insurance and maintain my professional responsibilities through ongoing training and development, ensuring that my practice remains safe, ethical, and up to date.
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services
TogetherWe offers flexible and affordable counselling for people experiencing emotional and psychological difficulties.I am always happy to have an initial conversation with you before we begin, giving us the opportunity to talk about what has brought you to counselling and whether I am the right counsellor for you.Sessions are available online or in-person from my counselling rooms in Bexleyheath or Bromley.When you are ready to talk, I am ready to listen.
sessions
Standard 50 minutes
£50
full counselling sessionExtended 75 minutes
£75
longer session allows more time to explore things in depthCheck-in 25 minutes
£25 online only
(for existing clients within ongoing work only - cannot be guaranteed)
shorter session for focused discussionSupport groups are offered on an occasional basis, with details shared here when available.
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My counselling journey
Life does not always follow the path we imagine, and like many people, I have experienced times when I needed support, understanding, and space to reflect.For many years, I worked as a hairdresser. During that time, I discovered that what I valued most was not only the work itself, but the connections I built with people. I have always been someone who listens, cares, and appreciates the importance of feeling truly heard. My own experience of counselling had a profound impact on me. Having the opportunity to talk openly, explore my thoughts and feelings, and be met with compassion and without judgement showed me just how powerful the counselling relationship can be. That experience inspired me to make a significant change in my own life and retrain as an integrative counsellor. It was a challenging journey, but one that has been incredibly rewarding.I understand that asking for help can feel daunting. Opening up to someone new takes courage, and I want to provide a safe, warm, and welcoming space where you can be yourself and explore whatever has brought you here. As an integrative counsellor, I believe that every person has their own story, experiences, and strengths. I work collaboratively with you, drawing on different therapeutic approaches to support you in a way that feels right for you.I am passionate about supporting adults through life’s challenges.I feel privileged to be part of someone’s journey and to offer the kind of space where people can feel understood, accepted, and supported.If you are considering counselling, I would be very happy to hear from you.
what is counselling?
If you’re thinking about counselling, you may have some questions.
Here are some of the things people often wonder before getting started.
What to expectCounselling is a space where you can come exactly as you are. A place where you can talk openly, be listened to, and feel understood without judgement. Feeling safe and comfortable with the person you choose to work with is the foundation of meaningful therapy, and I will always take the time to build that trust with you. I know from my own experience of counselling how powerful it can be to have someone truly listen and support you. My aim is to offer that same sense of warmth, acceptance, and understanding, so that TogetherWe can explore what is happening for you. As an integrative counsellor, I work with you as an individual, adapting our sessions to what feels right for you and what you need at that point in your life.Is counselling right for me?You may be wondering whether counselling is the right choice for you, or whether what you are experiencing is something you should seek support for. Counselling can be helpful for many different reasons. You may be feeling overwhelmed, anxious, stuck, or simply know that something does not feel quite right. You do not need to have everything figured out before reaching out. Sometimes having a space to talk, reflect, and be listened to can be the beginning of understanding what you need.Counselling is for many different reasonsYou do not need to be at breaking point to seek support. Sometimes counselling is a place to work through difficult experiences, and sometimes it is simply a space to understand yourself better, reflect, and make sense of what you are feeling. If something is affecting your life, your relationships, or the way you feel about yourself, it is worth exploring.What I wish you knew before your first sessionIf you are thinking about counselling, you may be wondering how it works or even whether you will know what to say. I want you to know that you do not need to prepare anything before we meet. Sometimes the hardest part is simply reaching out. Our first session is a chance for us to meet, talk about what has brought you to counselling, and see how it feels to work together. You can ask questions, take your time, and share only what you feel comfortable sharing. There may be moments when you talk, moments when you think, and moments when there are no words at all. Counselling is your space at your pace.
